My Golden Birthday: Things I Learned In My Early 20s


Am I the only person in the world who is excited to turn 25? Probably. But today’s my birthday and you can’t tell me I’m wrong.

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I don’t know, but something about being 25 sounds significantly cooler than being 24. Or any other age really. Maybe I’ll actually start thinking of myself as an adult now. Who knows;) So on my 25th birthday, I wanted to share a few things I learned in my early 20s. This blog, in a sense, is like a journal. It’s a place that I can look back on so many significant moments in my life – like my birthday. It’s going to be really cool to look back on this birthday in a few years and remember the things I learned, or so I thought.

You don’t have to have it all figured out

When I got out of college, the only thing I really had figured out was my new full-time job at Perry Ellis. Other than that, my less was a “mess”. Not in a bad way at all. I was fresh out of college and pretty much newly-single, so I wanted to go out and do it big with my friends. If you want to stay out till 6am, do it. If you want to dabble in a few careers before choosing your dream one, do it. I don’t have *many* regrets from my early 20s at all. With my blog, I didn’t exactly know what I wanted to do with it after college. I kept writing and posting outfit photos because it was fun. At some point, I realized that this could be a legitimate business for myself, and I’m really happy I took the plunge to creating it. Now, at 25 years old, it’s pretty damn cool to say I’m a small business owner. If you would have asked me about this when I was 21-22 years old, I would NOT have had it figured out. AND THAT’S OKAY!!!

He’s probably not the guy you want

I’m definitely generalizing here, but it’s 100% OK to make a few mistakes in the guy arena when you’re in your early 20s. I know some people do meet their soulmates when they’re younger. One thing I “regret” doing is not going out on dates more. I was either caught up in my ex-boyfriend from college or over-thinking situations with this guy I barely knew. One thing I’m so happy I did was just had fun with my friends. In the year and a half I was truly single, I was so ridiculously happy just being with my girlfriends all the time. And then Matt came along. Ladies, your own Prince Charming IS OUT THERE. I can promise you that. Matt and I were completely unexpected, and I honestly can’t picture life without him (more on him below). So when you’re 21 or 22 years old, the first guy you meet might not be the next best love of your life. You’ll get through it…promise!

Pick your battles wisely

I’m almost getting sick of talking about this, but I had a certain situation that didn’t go away (read: I kept finding new information that really pissed me off). It came to a point where I needed to literally choose which battles to fight. You know that saying, “Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery”? Well, that’s false. It’s not flattering, it’s annoying. I found myself biting my tongue more often than not, and it came to a point where I was going to burst. And not in a good way. A few years ago, the real New Yorker in me would have most likely came out. Now that I’m a *responsible* adult, I took a step back and really thought about the situations I was dealing with. I turned my frustration into a blog post that happens to be one of my most-read posts EVER. It was amazing to see all of the support from other bloggers as well as help others out who have also gone through similar situations. That blog post is one of my favorites to date for sure.

Saving is important, but don’t miss out

It’s probably safe to say that I’m not good with my money. I tend to spend a little more than I should…and don’t save where I can. I blame this partly on my addiction to shopping and partly due to my love of experiences. I’d rather go out and do something fun or travel than stay home and sulk because I don’t want to spend money. If there’s a place I want to go to, I make sure it’s on my list. And I make sure I do it soon. It sounds cliche, but you really never know what life is going to throw at you. I want to make sure I don’t miss out on the best things life has to offer me at a specific moment in time.

Your most valued things

Somewhere between the ages of 20-25, I truly realized what’s important to me. And this is by far one of the biggest life lessons I’ve learned ever.

Obviously my family is number one. I got to watch my sister get married to her best friend, my dad overcome a huge bump in the road, my mom rehab her broken elbow after a tough surgery and painful recovery, and watch my cousins introduce new beautiful babies into this world (and another is coming shortly!). My grandmother is over 90 years old and we get to spend a lot of time with her. Although I don’t get to see my mom’s side of the family as often as I’d like, I love following along my crazy cousins’ lives on social media. I’ve realized that nothing beats a good family. I’m so blessed to have some of the best people in the world in my life.

Relationships come next. My best friends of 11 years (there’s 8 of us) are the girls who I probably want to kill most of the time, but I know we’ll always be there for each other. Then there’s Allie, who I met in 2012 and we’ve only gotten closer since she moved to New York. What a partner in crime she is — and Pink Champagne Problems would be nothing without her stunning photography. I can’t forget about Linda. We had a bumpy road to get through after college, and now I always think about how immature we were. Linda is my sassiest friend who I can always count on to tell me the truth. She’s also one of my biggest cheerleaders. It’s a win-win with her. And lastly, Matt. In the last (almost) two years of being together, I can’t even describe how happy I’ve been. Although I call him annoying most of the time, he’s one of the funniest people I’ve ever met. He knows exactly how to put a smile on my face, and I can’t tell you enough how supportive he is. I always dated guys who were kind of jerks, so I figured that was just “my type”. When Matt came along, I couldn’t believe how genuine he was. Anyone who knows Matt will tell you how good of a person he is, which makes me so lucky to call him mine. I obviously cannot forget about the girls who I’ve come to know and love through blogging — there are WAY too many of you to name, but I’d like to think you know who you are. These are the girls who are consistently supporting me. The girls who I LOVE seeing their successes and the girls who I text when I’m frustrated over something that’s happening with a campaign or social media platform. The blogging world isn’t always full of nice people, but most of us are pretty damn great.

My career and my blog are also insanely important to me. As I’ve mentioned so many times before, I’m so lucky that I found two things that I love to do. And then I get to call them my jobs? Yep. Crazy lucky. I take both jobs as a Merchandiser and creator of Pink Champagne Problems very seriously. I love learning from both of these jobs, and am so grateful I get to do them every day.

So there you have it. A few of the things I learned in my early 20s. I’m so excited to begin the next year on my life on one of the most positive notes. I feel so good about this year, and I honestly cannot wait to see what this year has in store for me! As always, I want to thank each and every one of you who read this little space on the Internet and support me in more ways than you even realize! xx


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So in 2019, everything I do is going to have a purpose. Every blog post I publish, every Instagram post I curate, every email I send, every argument I make,  every thing I put in my body. WHATEVER. It’s all going to have a PURPOSE. Resolutions could be heavy weight that is constantly on your mind — but that’s not what I want this year to be. 2019 is going to be another year of growth, happiness, success, and yes, probably even failure. But damn, I’m ready for it🙌🏼
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